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IADGAF
Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy.
This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.)
This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.
It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.
Episodes
26 episodes
86. How To Build Self Trust While Being Pegged By Capitalism
Heyyyyy beautiful souls!How the heck are you?!In today’s episode we’re talking all about:Capitalism and how it has us fucked up Rushing through life (and how thats some white supremacy sh*t)Slowing down (...
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85. Ranking Your Pleasure, My Orgasmic Shower & Reclaiming Our F*cking Time
Hey beautiful souls!In today’s episode I’m chatting about: Ways I’m revoking access from people How I’m living more authentically Why tf is everyone getting pregnant & how there are bigger f...
84. Slow Pleasure & The Art Of Slowing Down
Trigger warning: bodily fluids Hey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about:My body forcing me to slow downWhy I don’t want to be a billionaire anymore Slowly exiting...
83. My Dating App Psychosis & How Social Media Is Skewing Our Concept Of Connection
Hey beautiful souls!I’m back with yet another beautiful episode of IADGAF and today we’re outside with the birds & talking all about:How I’m grieving the society I thought we used to have (but maybe never...
PATREON BONUS: So I Met Up With a Man IRL After a Year Of No Dating…
HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY!
69. Decolonizing Pleasure Pt 2 | Gender & Sexuality Pre-Colonization
Hey beautiful souls,HAPPY EPISODE 69!For Episode 69 I wanted to do something HUGE and this episode is probably THE most informative one yet.We’re talking about:Gender and sexuality before colonization<...
68. The Power Of The Indigenous People | Decolonizing Pleasure
Hey beautiful souls,In today’s episode I talk all about how the white man literally tried to wipe indigenous people off of the earth and dive deep into some research about the world of pleasure before our bodies were colonized...
PATREON BONUS: Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY
Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY“I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself”Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe...
What If Everything Wasn't a Punishment
Anyone else getting sick of all the "lessons" and "tests" that are showing up in our lives especially once we announce we're dedicated to growing?Well maybe it's time for a mental reshift...What if these weren't lessons...
The Root Cause To The Voices In My Head
On today's series of voicenotes we're at the beach & we're bringing some healing & compassion to the mean voices in our headsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaEx...
You Are Perfect, Just As You Are | No Lessons Just Practice
The world may not be punishing us ya'll...Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceThe Ethereal Pleasure Academy:
The People Pleaser’s Guide to Losing Yourself (and How I’m Finding Me Again)
“Excuse Me, Am I in Your Way — in Life?” - me LMAOOkay but…seriously. Why am I saying “sorry” to the chair I just bumped into? Why am I overthinking that text I sent 3 hours ago? Why am I mentally writing 12 versions of a messag...
PATREON BONUS: Reconnecting With My First Lesbian Lover & My PMDD Diagnosis
I want to live in a world where we aren't ashamed by our self diagnosis and instead are proud to know that we know our bodies well enough to be able to know when somethings wrong and how to heal it.Not saying I don't think doctors are ne...
PROJECT PLEASURE: I Asked 11 People About Their Pleasure & What An Orgasm Feels Like
In this raw and revealing episode of The Love Atiya Experience, I'm introducing you to something deeply personal, powerful, and necessary. Introducing: Project Pleasure!I sat down with 11 brave, brilliant soul...
How To Feel Less Shame About Self Pleasure
Hey beautiful souls,HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!I 10/10 recommend listening to this episode when you’re home because we’re gonn...
To My Love Bugs: More Bonus Content, Diary Entires & More
Hey beautiful souls!Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperienc...
My P*ssy Is Grieving With Kiana Founder Of Souley Gazing
Hey beautiful souls,Issa ‘nother fire episode and this time we’re joined by the wonderful Kiana founder and creator of souley gazing a digital marketing agency for creators of color (or BIPOC)Finding solo ways to explore pene...
An Orgasm For Your Ears Feat Cornelia From Xounds
Heyyyyy beautiful souls,If you wanna feel like you’re listening in on two besties chatting then you’ve come to the right place.In this episode we are featuring the wonderful Cornelia, Co-founder of Xounds, an audio erotica hub foc...
Planning Your Sex Featuring Crystal Creator Of The Sex Planner
Hello beautiful souls!I am sooooo excited to share with you the absolutely astounding star of a human Crystal A-Ego creator of The Sex Planner!In today’s episode we talk all about:- Sex Holidays- Planning se...
What An Orgasm Feels Like with Polina from Nympho Life
Heyyyy beautiful souls, I am SO HAPPY to be back!In today’s fabulous episode featuring the very fun. very sexy and absolutely amazing Polina we talk all about:- Sex outdoors (exhibitionist vs voyerism)- Polina shows us the c...
Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus Part 2
HEYYYYY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! Welcome to The Love Atiya Experience!In todays episode we’re diving into part two of catching up with THE Nigel Marcellus and talk about all things LOVE including:Never being in a relationship & n...
My Mom Brought Me My First Vibrator At 16 | Sex Ed At Home Feat My Mommy
Ya’ll this is my most cherished episode to DATE. I have wonder woman as a guest. A literal personification of love. The mother to all. The muva to me and the grandmuva to my cat. This is a one of a kind experience, featuring sacr...
Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 2
WELCOMEEEEE LOVE BUGS!I am so excited for part two of this magical episode with the absolutely wonderful Gross Demon Alex Monroe! This was such a fun episode to shoot & I am forever grateful for ALL that I learned from them....
Sober Sex & Healthy Dating Tips With Nadine From The Sober Butterfly Podcast
Heyyyy beautiful souls!Happy LOVE MONTH (although every month is the month of Love in my life)We’re back with yet another AMAZING guest and in today's episode we have the illustrious Nadine, host of The Sober Butterly Podcast....
Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus Part 1
HEYYYYY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! Welcome to The Love Atiya Experience!In todays episode we’re catching up with THE Nigel Marcellus and talk about all things LOVE including:Never being in a relationship & nav...